What you have to understand

Is that every illusion you are carrying.

Every false belief about: your Self, somebody else (boss, husband, wife, children, parents, romantic interests, etc.), a dream, a project, and so on.

Every one of these false beliefs, these illusions is.

Going to be totally destroyed in the climate of Truth we are in, at this time.

There are two types of people in this respect. The first will go into a tailspin and not recover, not learn the lesson, not receive the cleansing. The second will go into a tailspin and recover, will learn the lesson, will receive the cleansing, will evolve more truthful as result.

Maybe you think that girl is the one.

Or that project is your ticket to X.

Or your parents are to blame for all your problems.

And then...

Boom!

A wave crashes to show you that is totally not the case.

Ouch.

It's the same feeling as being in a deep sleep and having somebody wake you up with a bucket of ice cold water.

If you get in to a reactive state, start fighting, screaming, trying to repair, etc. you will not receive the message, you will not grow from the disillusionment.

Understand the disillusionment is a purifying action. It has happened to help you become more truthful, to be more yourself.

It's going to hurt either way. The healthy way to address the erasure of the false belief is to practice the following.

Drop the attachment immediately. Stop doing what you were doing. Stop entertaining the false notion. Let it go.

Know the bad feeling will pass and don't beat yourself up. If you have invested any length of time in to something or someone "working out" and then one day you realize it's not, it's going to hurt. The hurt will pass. What's more painful? Living in optimistic ignorance or Truth?

Be grateful what happened happened. How amazing is the intelligence operating behind the scenes? An intelligence that knows who you are. Where you are going. What you need.

And better than you.

Remember: every illusion you are carrying is going to be totally destroyed.

This means: learn to be comfortable with discomfort.