Beating your Self up

It's a terrible thing we do.

Remember though in this relative Universe, there is good in bad and bad in good.

Often there is strength in our weaknesses (cause of self flagellation) and weakness in our strengths.

Maybe you bow out when you should stand up.

Maybe that saved your life with an abusive parent and it became a habit, that's now years later hard to break.

Patience is the key to everything that is as yet unresolved in your life. Patience. And learning to love the process of change, as well as where you are right now—(relative) faults and all.